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Our Fallen Remembered

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This weekend is Memorial Day. Our flag will fly at my house. This day it a testament to the painful price that is all too often paid for the freedom established by our great Republic. I am lucky. I represent the first generation in my direct family who didn’t have an immediate family member die in a war. Sadly, I do know I have more distant relatives who perished in Korea, Vietnam, Iraq, and Afghanistan.

Contrary to how this might appear, mine is not a military family. We have always been American citizen soldiers who laid down their tools and their lives when more important things mattered. This shortened list helps me personally put the price required of our Republic into perspective. In sharing it I am not ignoring important historical conflicts and more distant relatives left unmentioned.

My father served in the American Field Service from the day England declared war on Nazi Germany until well after the day Germany surrendered. He literally served in every Allied army in WWII except the Russian one and always in all the worst places. From 1940 to 1945 he saw combat almost every day. The US Government did consider him a war veteran until the late 1990’s on a VA technicality. Typically, that official recognition took an Act of Congress.

Please read What he thought it means to be a vet.

My paternal grandfather served in the Navy in WWII. He enlisted the same day as my father. He died in Jan 1944 to save others in the South Pacific before I was ever born. He served in the Navy in the first Great War but did not see combat.

Members of my family served and died on both sides of the Civil War. A case of cousins fighting cousins and even brothers fighting brothers. There were senior officers on both sides with the name Tench Tilghman. The best remembered is a hero on the Union side for obvious reasons.

Members of my family served in the failed attempt to defend Washington DC in the war of 1812. There’s an anthem we sing about that. Honestly, they were defending their homes at the time.

Each time I sign my name I remember.
I am named after Tench Tilghman who was the most decorated war hero of the Revolution and the only person ever officially allowed armed into Congress. He personally negotiated and signed the first official treaty for the US Government with a foreign government – The Five Nations.
He and Washington were installed at the same time and place as the first officers in our armed forces before the Declaration of Independence was even signed. During the Revolution Tench rode 58 horses to death (paid for at his own expense) and served as Washington’s chief aid de camp and logician.

If you see a picture of George Washington the man standing to his right is Tench Tilghman. If he hadn’t spoken French well, there would be no United States of America. He delivered news of the surrender of the British at Yorktown to Congress for good reason. He was nominated to be the first Secretary of State but died at the age of 42 before taking office from malaria contracted at Yorktown.

That Tench is my second cousin. I am descended from his father’s brother, Mathew Tilghman, who literally helped James Madison and others craft the Constitution. Most folk forget the first American War ended in 1783. Please try to put  the number of years between 1776 to 1783 in perspective and then there really was no American Republic until 1789. There was and is always a lot to hash out.

It is a testament to what makes the American Republic great that there is nothing special about these outtakes from my personal family history. Many Americans have families that paid and contributed far more. Some of my close friends served in wars that didn’t exist in countries that don’t exist and are even now almost forgotten. That is only recent history…

We Never Forget